As little girls we grew up seeing our mothers or guardians taking care of us. We at times play mothers at a very tender age. You will all agree that most baby girls have a baby toy to play with. She is basically being a mother to that doll.
At a teen age we all tend to be a bit careful cause we already know that if we mess up we may become mothers before we are ready. To many teenagers that is a shameful thing to go through while your friends are out having fun with their beautiful figures. No one wants to sit home and breastfeed at a very young age.
We turn twenty and a big number start to fantasize. The idea of being a mother begins to slide into our minds, some start planning when they would want to have a baby. I said I would like to have a baby when I was 23 years old, just because my mother had her first born when she was at that age….My plan to have a baby at a certain age did not consider any factor, I just thought it was an ideal age to have a baby. This is what many young girl imagine , we see adorable kids on the way and we scream oooooh so cute I wanna have mine like now.
Poor girls, if only we knew the responsibilities that come with babies, we would have been a little more prepared. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that I wasn’t but I’m definitely saying that I did not know that it is this difficulty to take care of the baby in an expected way. Yes, No body said it is going to be easy but then again no body said how tough it is going to be.
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| Me and my Nephews, a few weeks before i conceived. I love them so much |
Big up Hannah, we expect more stories and all interesting posts..
ReplyDeleteThat is good mama Nelly. I am not a new mama (I am a man ouups!!) but I love your writing style. Been reading your pieces (in the guardian and other newspapers) for quit some time. Will tell those I love not to miss the wisdom and insights you will be pouring in here. See you soon. AND...God bless you and Nellie-Noella so very much. She is soooo cute!!!
ReplyDeleteHannah your idea of starting this thing is extraordinarily stunning..am so thrilled to get into this blog and i feel a priviledge to be one of the very first commentors of this blog..God bless you and our little Nel.
ReplyDeleteBaba Ethan-NEL
Sometime you can look into a woman in various ways, her struggle, her brain, her imaginations, her mistakes... and when you dig deeper.. with indepth critique, you will realize she is the strongest creature in the entire human race. Tike you are one of them, that prompted me into admiration of the real you. You are the best! OTOH + FYI, LYL.
ReplyDeleteAsanteni sana kwa support yenu wapendwa, hasa kina baba mnaochangia humu, mwenyezi MUNGU awajalie upendo zaidi. natumaini Blog hii itakuwa ni msaada kwa watu wengi zaidi.
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Hello Hannah..
ReplyDeleteThis is what we call "Creativity" how did u come up with such useful idea? I am used to see most of ladies blog are about fashions,other people stories and whats hot in the news but THIS IS DIFFERENT.
I am not a new mother yet but am getting prepared right now..so hope to get some useful information on healthy pregnancy too..PAMOJA from your friend from Ashira
Mamii good idea.Keep the good work up and expect to see many of my contributions.God Bless you.
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Thank you so much guys, just know that without you i cannot do this, it is our and so i count you all so very much. Keep visiting and drop a line for us (Mothers).
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